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I’m a recent divorcee who was unhoused for the past few months but sheltered in very cheap hotels in San Francisco before recently signing a lease to continue l
by about3fitty 3y ago
I’m a recent divorcee who was unhoused for the past few months but sheltered in very cheap hotels in San Francisco before recently signing a lease to continue living in an SRO on a month to month basis.
The divorce was a shock to the finances but not a big one. I make over $100k and am just now zeroing out my debt, much of which was education related.
The reason I haven’t signed a serious lease for a proper apartment in the city is because I look at apartment prices and just can’t bring myself to pay $2300+ for a place for myself. Studios below that price or living out of the city do not appeal to me, nor does living with roommates after a few recent experiences with that. I don’t do drugs or have any mental health issues.
I think there are others like me in the city - willing to accept Spartan accommodations rather than throw thousands of dollars to live in slightly better conditions - but I have not yet met any.
I feel like I am basically gentrifying the lowest level of housing before homelessness.
My finances are healthy and I am saving at a decent clip which is similar to a huge raise in salary.
I get that SF is one of the most expensive cities in the world, but when I look at other housing markets, I’ve noticed that rents are more similar to SF than in the past.
Millennials are pretty strained financially right now, Gen Z even more so. Minor shocks that would have been inconsequential for previous generations have become embiggened.
- lockhouse 3y agoSorry to hear about your struggles and I genuinely hope you’re in a good place now. Inflation is brutal. As the head of a 6 person household, rent, groceries, and gas are eating up way too much of my budget. I make just under 6 figures and with trying to maintain the modest activities my children were in before inflation hit and paying down debts it’s pretty much paycheck to paycheck living.
- bombcar 3y agoI’m in a similar situation and I was surprised to learn that I’m within a few dollars of qualifying for food stamps.
- milkytron 3y agoDo hotels really end up being cheaper than a rental? That seems interesting to me because even the cheapest motels in my area that are the last resort before homelessness run about $40/night and the cheapest studios in the same area are usually a bit lower than that on a monthly basis. Edit: Different market so prices may be different. Just find this surprising.