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Most of the people I know that pursue relationships for purely pragmatic reasons and fail seem to forget that people won't fit into boxes because you want put t
by mrcrumb1 3y ago
Most of the people I know that pursue relationships for purely pragmatic reasons and fail seem to forget that people won't fit into boxes because you want put them there. The people I see that are successful meet people where they are, and let their positions in their life reveal itself as they get to know the other person. I don't know if this applies to you or is even helpful, but it is a pattern I have noticed in my life.
- asdf6677 3y agoSuccessful in pseudo arranged marriages, or just in general? I haven’t been in a relationship yet so I have no idea if this will even work
- mrcrumb1 3y agoI'm not sure what you mean by pseudo arranged marriages. I mean successful at building new interpersonal relationships in general, and generally that translates into more opportunity for romantic relationships.
- asdf6677 3y agoI mean people who settle for somebody they don’t have romantic feelings for because it’s a pragmatic decision