> the "not sharing my ban list is bannable" problem plagues the Fediverse i had to google around a bit to figure out what you meant by that. do you mean "serve

> the "not sharing my ban list is bannable" problem plagues the Fediverse i had to google around a bit to figure out what you meant by that. do you mean "server A blocks server B, you run server C and want to federate with B but if you do then A will block you too"? if so, that's not "empowering people to destroy your social graph", indeed, from A's point of view it's the only way they can contain a potential infection by posts from B. but as an end user you could easily have accounts on both A and B, and a client that merged them, you just can't use your server C to join A and B into the same graph when A does not want to be connected to B.