there's tons of stuff on the internet for this now. keep these two things in mind: 1. is what you've been doing for years, working? then don't keep doing it.

there's tons of stuff on the internet for this now. keep these two things in mind: 1. is what you've been doing for years, working? then don't keep doing it. 2. has asking advice from women, ever worked? 3. imagine you have always been poor, how do you think your social circle would react if you tried to get rich? if you actually achieve it? think deeply about these things with an open mind. talking about the fact that you can actually learn to be good with women is highly offensive to a huge portion of the population because you are turning that something that should be 'natural' into something that can be quantified and that deeply upsets some people. they really can't handle it mentally.