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> These are the dudes who get dumped or divorced and never see it coming no, i do believe you have it exactly backwards. you're also just making up straw man
by inconceivable 3y ago
> These are the dudes who get dumped or divorced and never see it coming
no, i do believe you have it exactly backwards.
you're also just making up straw man arguments like "can't connect with people". i didn't even mention that, or hobbies, or charity, or anything. pure fiction in your mind.
you see a post about 'self improvement' and your mind just fills in the blanks with your own assumptions. you probably didn't actually read half the post.
- habinero 3y agoOh, I read it. I'm commenting on what you chose to emphasize and what you left out, because that speaks volumes about what you value. Almost all of the advice was around superficial, self-centered things. All of it was about you getting something you want, and none of it was about being a net positive in someone else's life. It comes off as cold and selfish.
- inconceivable 3y agoyeah, so you took something i didn't say, and just made it up. you even gave me an opinion on this made up topic. that's called a straw man. that's the literal definition of one. i know, you're probably the kind of person who doesn't usually commit logical fallacies. except when you do, of course. either way: be fit, make money, don't be needy, dress well, be good at sex, work hard to overcome height/race, move past breakups, keep working to improve. these are somehow selfish? HAHA okay buddy. then again, hey you know you could NOT follow my advice, and be fat, broke, needy, schlubby, lame at sex, lazy, heartbroken, and give up.
- habinero 3y agoIf you want to do them, fine. But they're not going to make you successful at relationships, because everything about them has to do with you.