This is why I stayed out of the game. I saw so many unhappy outcomes in my social circle that I figured my chances were not going to be very good. The typical

This is why I stayed out of the game. I saw so many unhappy outcomes in my social circle that I figured my chances were not going to be very good. The typical family lifestyle is not for everyone and the propaganda pushing it is very strong from day 0. It took me about a decade to get over the feeling of "I am a piece of shit" for not participating in the circus that most of us think is perfectly normal and/or mandatory.