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How is this representative of real life? Like where do you live where people are toxic to you to your face and harass you, honest to god I don’t really see that

How is this representative of real life? Like where do you live where people are toxic to you to your face and harass you, honest to god I don’t really see that in my life at least. It’s pretty clear that people behave differently when given anonymity, shouldn’t we try to “emulate real life” at least in the way we interact with each other on the daily?

zdragnar 3y ago
It happens. I know someone who was called a dictator, fascist, silencer and worse by his coworkers for the sin of asking people to take political discussions to a different slack channel than the engineering team's main one. I know a few other people who work there, and can confirm it isn't just him; the place is just plain toxic. Imagine his surprise when he was basically pushed out of the company in less than a year.
- TeMPOraL 3y ago
  I'd normally say "good for him, he dodged a bullet, he's not going to be hurt by fallout once the company gets so rotten inside it collapses on itself". Unfortunately, this is not an isolated trend; if it keeps up, we'll see a whole generation of people with minds filled with hate, and I'm not sure the society can survive it undamaged.
- midoridensha 3y ago
  As soon as he found that this behavior was condoned by management there, he should have started looking for a new job. Obviously, he's not a "cultural fit" for that company. There are a lot of really crappy companies out there with toxic cultures; don't stick around in one if you don't have to.
- bandrami 3y ago
  > called a dictator, fascist, silencer and worse by his coworkers That company's HR department must be fascinating > to take political discussions I'm really curious what you're considering "political discussions" here, and if it includes "please stop using ethnic slurs in git commit messages" or something like that

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How is this representative of real life? Like where do you live where people are toxic to you to your face and harass you, honest to god I don’t really see that

by roqueasoto 3y ago

zdragnar 3y ago
It happens. I know someone who was called a dictator, fascist, silencer and worse by his coworkers for the sin of asking people to take political discussions to a different slack channel than the engineering team's main one. I know a few other people who work there, and can confirm it isn't just him; the place is just plain toxic. Imagine his surprise when he was basically pushed out of the company in less than a year.
- TeMPOraL 3y ago
  I'd normally say "good for him, he dodged a bullet, he's not going to be hurt by fallout once the company gets so rotten inside it collapses on itself". Unfortunately, this is not an isolated trend; if it keeps up, we'll see a whole generation of people with minds filled with hate, and I'm not sure the society can survive it undamaged.
- midoridensha 3y ago
  As soon as he found that this behavior was condoned by management there, he should have started looking for a new job. Obviously, he's not a "cultural fit" for that company. There are a lot of really crappy companies out there with toxic cultures; don't stick around in one if you don't have to.
- bandrami 3y ago
  > called a dictator, fascist, silencer and worse by his coworkers That company's HR department must be fascinating > to take political discussions I'm really curious what you're considering "political discussions" here, and if it includes "please stop using ethnic slurs in git commit messages" or something like that