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> When we had meetings he would unprompted send out lists of everything we had discussed, along with links and useful information. This has been a practice of
by steve_adams_86 3y ago
> When we had meetings he would unprompted send out lists of everything we had discussed, along with links and useful information.
This has been a practice of mine for a long time now. A boss of mine once told me “the guy taking notes will never have any sway in the conversation, you’re handicapping yourself”, and I said something like “the guy taking notes actually knows what’s going on, though”. He wasn’t very receptive at first, but it stuck, and he actually began to use me as a reference to know what was going on.
I love talking to people and keeping tabs on what’s up. Teams tend to be awful at it, but it’s no specific person’s fault. Making a point of doing it is like a relatively inexpensive super power. You can help your coworkers a lot, and you rarely end up doing unnecessary work. That’s one of my favourite parts I think; I really can’t stand wasting my or other people’s time.
I think my boss was wrong, too. When you’ve got a good grasp on what’s going on, you’re in a far better position to weigh in after initial conversations. I’d prefer to hear people out and only interject if I see obvious issues with their ideas. Otherwise I’ll just listen.
- majormajor 3y agoYeah, I like to say the person who has the most impactful/efficient sway in a conversation is the one who knows what's going on well enough to not have to talk constantly, but to just drop in some important questions or corrections or other considerations at the necessary time. ;) It's much easier to talk than it is to change people's minds.