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At the height of tinder, I worked in a sales office. When we wanted a bit of a laugh, we'd troll women by asking if they would go to whatever fancy spot with us
by talldatethrow 3y ago
At the height of tinder, I worked in a sales office. When we wanted a bit of a laugh, we'd troll women by asking if they would go to whatever fancy spot with us, if we paid and gave various amounts of cash as spending money. That was our opener. You'd be shocked at the success rate. Some of the more innocent coworkers thought the girls were trolling us back. So we'd ask for phone numbers, and call them on speaker phone and troll more on the phone. At that point you can't deny she was serious, no girl gives away their phone number under that scenario unless she's serious.
As days went on we'd reduce the cash, and still many would agree. We eventually tried just offering cash and still some would agree, but eventually our account got flagged and banned.
- lern_too_spel 3y agoMany women on Twitter are looking for casual relationships. News at 11. It's not different with men. If you're looking for a long term relationship, you have to filter out the casuals. The article says that surveys show more women than men are looking for long term relationships, so if that's what you're looking for, you shouldn't have trouble finding it unless your standards are higher than what you can get vs. competitors in the dating market. Being a misogynist will typically count against you, just as being a misandrist would count against women.
- talldatethrow 3y agoNews flash, most people I know were surprised to find out a woman will accept a free trip in exchange for sex with someone they haven't met. The only saving grace of that tinder experiment is that obviously the match meets a looks threshold since she swiped right on him. Id still basically call it prostitution and the acceptance rate was like 30% flat out, and another 30% cautious but could have been talked into it. Almost every woman I know under 35 has tried online dating. So yes I think it's surprising that almost half of women will agree to fly away with a stranger and have sex with them as long as they don't have to pay.
- amanaplanacanal 3y agoI’d guess most guys would be down for that too, if the roles were reversed. Humans gonna human.
- talldatethrow 3y agoMen would be down for just easy sex, no cash or trips required. The point is, most people believe women are a bit reserved when dispensing sex. But it seems as long as the guy is a little attractive and offers free stuff, women don't make you jump through as many hoops as some guys are made to jump through.
- lern_too_spel 3y ago> News flash, most people I know were surprised to find out a woman will accept a free trip in exchange for sex with someone they haven't met. That isn't what your anecdote showed. It showed they would be willing to meet you to decide if they wanted to take a free trip with you. Some of those with a higher risk tolerance would probably be willing to take the flight and money and ditch you even if you seemed sketchy. Believing they would automatically have sex with you is naïve.
- talldatethrow 3y agoThe sex was flat out implied in the messages we were sending, and it would be a crazy girl to go and ditch you only to have to get her own place to stay and book her own flight back. But your right, basically all wanted to meet ahead of the trip.