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The first line was all I needed to know. “Oh he doesn’t got to Yale? He’s out!” Online dating has is enumerating the qualities we think our ideal mate will hav
by more_corn 3y ago
The first line was all I needed to know. “Oh he doesn’t got to Yale? He’s out!”
Online dating has is enumerating the qualities we think our ideal mate will have. We think that if we tick the boxes of what we like we can save time. Then we complain that there aren’t enough candidates! But this process eliminates people who might be an awesome fit because they don’t match some arbitrary metric.
My favorite is must be 6’ or taller. Seriously? You think you could never love someone who’s five foot eleven and a half? If you have criteria like that and can’t find anyone to date I don’t feel sorry for you. But I do have some advice. Put down your list and go meet people. You’ll be blown away by how unexpectedly you like or just click with the oddest assortment.