>They aren’t looking for “status” Are you sure? Because multiple studies contradict that claim. I will point out that status can mean different things dependi

>They aren’t looking for “status” Are you sure? Because multiple studies contradict that claim. I will point out that status can mean different things depending on the (sub)culture and context. Perhaps in some social circles, high EQ is high status. >and it sets up a negative dynamic because if gaining power is the goal then having an egalitarian relationship with your lover is not possible. Status is multifaceted. Women are attracted to status, but that doesn't mean women can't be high status as well. High status could be anything from being good at some niche hobby to making lots of money to being athletic.