"It's sad an overachieving woman reaches the top and can't find the ideal person she had built up in her head" If you're at the top, and select for men higher

"It's sad an overachieving woman reaches the top and can't find the ideal person she had built up in her head" If you're at the top, and select for men higher than that top, that's not sad. It's delusional. A 1%-er selecting for a 0.1%-er is the least of society's problems.