> It's honestly hard to compare emotional and physical trauma. (as a message to the whole tree of comments, not just you) It's also unnecessary to compare, it

> It's honestly hard to compare emotional and physical trauma. (as a message to the whole tree of comments, not just you) It's also unnecessary to compare, it's not a competition. They're both trauma because damage has been done, they both scale from benign and playful[1] to horrifically destructive[2]. The worse it's enacted the worse it is, regardless of who did it and regardless of who did worse to the other gender. [1]: eg: expressions during sex, or teases during flirting [2]: eg violent shootings, or fake rape allegations - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11854355/Three-men-tried-lives-false-rape-allegations-woman-court-hears.html https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11854355/Three-men-...