More and more, I find that sugar coating everything and coddling everyone is not kind or compassionate. I'm not saying that we should be going out of our way t

More and more, I find that sugar coating everything and coddling everyone is not kind or compassionate. I'm not saying that we should be going out of our way to make fun of everyone every chance we get, but this idea that "oh, those people are different so they are off limits for jokes or criticism" is a good way to make sure those people never develop any level of resilience.