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Something absurd like asking someone how they want to be referred to in the third person?

version_five 3y ago
If someone feels that's a critical piece of information to share, nothing is stopping them. My understanding is that he was being coerced into doing that himself when it wasn't relevant to him, and in fact he found it offensive to be aksed. So yes it's absurd. (I'm not sure I should have replied, I consider the whole issue too stupid to spend time on other than to say "piss off, adults are talking", but anyway)
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- iLoveOncall 3y ago
  > If someone feels that's a critical piece of information to share, nothing is stopping them. My understanding is that Assigned by God was being coerced into doing that Assigned by Godself when it wasn't relevant to Assigned by God, and in fact Assigned by God found it offensive to be aksed. So yes it's absurd. FTFY.
AdrianB1 3y ago
Is "referred in the third person" something flexible, like a preference? If yes, where is the limit, if any limit exists? Or is it like a nickname, where you can chose anything? Then it is no longer a pronoun, but a nickname or alias.
George83728 3y ago
A man has a right to be offended by somebody asking him if he is a man. (Woman too, for that matter.) Asking everybody their pronouns by default is an overtly political act, meant to re-engineer society to be more accommodating to people who's preferred pronouns do not match their visual appearance. The idea is that if everybody lists their pronouns, those people who's pronoun doesn't match their appearance will seem less conspicuous when they specify their preference. Since this listing of pronounces is a fundamentally a political act, you shouldn't be surprised when you encounter people who don't wish to participate in this sort of political action. Furthermore it is clearly inappropriate for employers to coerce workers to participating in such activism.

If someone feels that's a critical piece of information to share, nothing is stopping them. My understanding is that he was being coerced into doing that himself when it wasn't relevant to him, and in fact he found it offensive to be aksed. So yes it's absurd. (I'm not sure I should have replied, I consider the whole issue too stupid to spend time on other than to say "piss off, adults are talking", but anyway)

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iLoveOncall 3y ago
> If someone feels that's a critical piece of information to share, nothing is stopping them. My understanding is that Assigned by God was being coerced into doing that Assigned by Godself when it wasn't relevant to Assigned by God, and in fact Assigned by God found it offensive to be aksed. So yes it's absurd. FTFY.

AdrianB1 3y ago

Is "referred in the third person" something flexible, like a preference? If yes, where is the limit, if any limit exists? Or is it like a nickname, where you can chose anything? Then it is no longer a pronoun, but a nickname or alias.

George83728 3y ago

A man has a right to be offended by somebody asking him if he is a man. (Woman too, for that matter.) Asking everybody their pronouns by default is an overtly political act, meant to re-engineer society to be more accommodating to people who's preferred pronouns do not match their visual appearance. The idea is that if everybody lists their pronouns, those people who's pronoun doesn't match their appearance will seem less conspicuous when they specify their preference. Since this listing of pronounces is a fundamentally a political act, you shouldn't be surprised when you encounter people who don't wish to participate in this sort of political action. Furthermore it is clearly inappropriate for employers to coerce workers to participating in such activism.