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Yeah classic "all the annoying stuff my parents said was right" situation. Then you start saying the same annoying stuff to your kids. When you boil down a com
by resonious 3y ago
Yeah classic "all the annoying stuff my parents said was right" situation. Then you start saying the same annoying stuff to your kids.
When you boil down a complex spiritual solution like this to one phrase, "accept yourself" seems to be correct. But someone who hasn't gotten there yet can't "un-boil" the solution to make it work for them. The actual solution is probably very specific to that person, and nebulous to the point where they can't put it into actionable words even when they do figure it out.
- wiz21c 3y agoI tend to reproduce what my parent said, but usually the intent behind that is pretty different. Example: "you must have good scores at school else you'll have no future" is repeated as "you should have good scores because learning broadens your horizons and helps you to grow" It boils down to the same thing, but, hopefully, the pressure is weaker.