- "I want everyone at this conference play by these rules." - "I don't like those rules, so I won't be coming and I'll start my own conference." - "Okay, good

- "I want everyone at this conference play by these rules." - "I don't like those rules, so I won't be coming and I'll start my own conference." - "Okay, good luck!" Doesn't need to be hard. Everyone wins. This is a non-controversy because 20 people on Twitter are "angry" (what else is new).