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> More details needed to know if this is good stewardship (ejecting two toxic individuals) or laziness (ejecting a villain and a hero to get rid of the "problem
by jstarfish 3y ago
> More details needed to know if this is good stewardship (ejecting two toxic individuals) or laziness (ejecting a villain and a hero to get rid of the "problem" easily). TikTok was using this method for a while by ejecting both bullies and victims,
This is SOP for American schools. It's laziness there, since education is supposed to be compulsory. They can't be bothered to investigate (and with today's hostile climate, I don't blame them) so they consign both parties to independent-study programs.
For volunteer projects, throwing both overboard is unfortunate but necessary stewardship. The drama either attracts destabilizes the entire project, which only exists as long as it remains fun for the maintainer. It's tragic, but victims who can't recover gracefully are as toxic as their abusers.
- mrtranscendence 3y agoRight, I for one would also prefer it if people who face harassment and hate would just accept it gracefully and move on. I mean, get over yourself, amiright?