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Are you worried of people "obnoxiousing" someone of hatred out of spite? Well, there's two things, one is that only people you messaged can mark you as obnoxiou
by LaGrange 15y ago
Are you worried of people "obnoxiousing" someone of hatred out of spite? Well, there's two things, one is that only people you messaged can mark you as obnoxious, and only once. Two, hopefully after some tuning, becoming a "recognized pain-in-the-behind" would mean that a significant part of the site (or at least the part of it you're likely to message) considers you obnoxious.
Or are you afraid of bots?
- itmag 15y agoI can easily see chicks confusing "ugghh that guy is a loser clicks obnoxious button" with "that guy sent me a string of genuinely obnoxious messages and actually deserves to be punished click". Btw, we should talk. You have some cool ideas.
- LaGrange 15y agoFirst, I see using the word "chicks" as insanely offensive. That's what probably would get you marked as obnoxious, not the looks. The second thing, getting marked as obnoxious means you're routinely messaging the wrong people. The only change I'd consider to combat this is the site warning you, that the kind of people you're messaging are obviously not that into it, along with any hints it could mine from the data. Also, I consider your fear misguided. Trust me, the most common reasons for rejection of men by women on dating sites are not looks. The other way around, though...
- itmag 15y agoFirst, I see using the word "chicks" as insanely offensive. Well, you need to get out more then, methinks :)