I think of it more as joining a team (like for recreational sports). If I am (and my coworkers are) are having fun, and we're collectively moving the business

I think of it more as joining a team (like for recreational sports). If I am (and my coworkers are) are having fun, and we're collectively moving the business forward, then great. Things are low stress, with a pile of money coming (and I avoid places that expect unsustainable hours, so that is not an issue). If that's not how things are going, then, well, the tech gold rush probably has a few more decades in it (minimum), and there are other plenty of other companies that do offer those things.