If that's your "real-life" dating experience, maybe you should date different people. Yes, some women look at wallet size. Most (of the ones I know) don't. Yes

If that's your "real-life" dating experience, maybe you should date different people. Yes, some women look at wallet size. Most (of the ones I know) don't. Yes, even the ones who don't date within roughly their own socioeconomic strata - but that's a) the same for men, and b) not the same as what you're implying.