I struggle with the "required lectures no one wants to hear". I know that they need to hear the lecture but I also know they don't want a lecture, delivering un

I struggle with the "required lectures no one wants to hear". I know that they need to hear the lecture but I also know they don't want a lecture, delivering unwanted lectures causes people to dislike me greatly and assume I'm a smug neckbeard when really all I want is for people to have the knowledge I have. Simply not delivering said lectures has it's own downsides but seems to be the best strategy if you care primarily about how well liked you are. Mind you this isn't everyone, it's maybe 50% of people and certain personality types really don't like receiving information in that format. There are also those that think the same way and reciprocate in kind when you have a knowledge gap, I really appreciate those people. They also are better at communicating what they actually do know so you can reach a shared understanding with them faster.