> You can't just unilaterally decide you're going to orient your life around your friends if your friends aren't on the same page. And that's the rub. It's rea

> You can't just unilaterally decide you're going to orient your life around your friends if your friends aren't on the same page. And that's the rub. It's really difficult to find "bro's for life" that plan on being that way for most people, for a variety of reasons, will move out of that phase. I believe it's because we hang with a pack when we are in our mate selection phase of life and after that occurs, people have different ambitions for their life. Hangin with friends all the time is generally very different at that point. > To be fair I don't think I was "unsuccessful" at making friends when I was younger Indeed, there's many reasons someone may not form lasting bonds with friends in their youth and it's not necessarily because they were not good at it.