How about a $800 mortgage on a $1 million house and $2,500/month buys you a one bedroom basement apartment 45 minutes away from where your kids and ex-wife live

How about a $800 mortgage on a $1 million house and $2,500/month buys you a one bedroom basement apartment 45 minutes away from where your kids and ex-wife live. Or both of you sell and split the house and now live in an apartment building in different areas of town instead of in the single family home beside the park where your kids grew up.... It's lonely, but financially and logistically splitting up is unaffordable. So. Option 3. Stay and regret it 'til my dying day.