> are fundamentally dishonest about what our problems are It's more like, we make up excuses because we don't know our real motives or don't want to outright s

> are fundamentally dishonest about what our problems are It's more like, we make up excuses because we don't know our real motives or don't want to outright say we dont want kids because it's societally unacceptable. I believe statistics show there is a rise in childlessness , but people having kids have on average the same kids as a few decades ago.