> You clearly don't have kids/family and that's OK. 1. It being OK is my point. 2. I do have family: I'm just not a parent. I have parents and siblings and ni

> You clearly don't have kids/family and that's OK. 1. It being OK is my point. 2. I do have family: I'm just not a parent. I have parents and siblings and nieces and nephews and aunts and uncles and cousins. I know many and am very close to several. There are many kids in my life. They don't belong to me, but do they truly belong to anyone? We all have different circumstances. I understand if you can't relate to mine. Even so, my experience does exist: it is not defined by yours.