Speaking as someone who's been on the child side of such a relationship: be careful not to berate your children over what they do when with her, and don't put t

Speaking as someone who's been on the child side of such a relationship: be careful not to berate your children over what they do when with her, and don't put the other parent down in front of your kids. They'll grow up policing their own behaviour to avoid a parent-parent confrontation and that might trigger anxiety issues.