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Dude, this isn't "normal". "I'm most lonely when I'm alone with my wife" -- that is not healthy or good. I don't think your situation is applicable to the OP.
by maxdoop 3y ago
Dude, this isn't "normal".
"I'm most lonely when I'm alone with my wife" -- that is not healthy or good. I don't think your situation is applicable to the OP.
As a counter, I feel most comfortable when I am alone with my wife. She is my best friend.
- throwaway743 3y agoSame. My girlfriend of going on 7 years is whom I'm most comfortable around. Haven't popped the question yet because, a)I want to build my business first, and b) in my experience and observations at least 5 years of dating someone is great for knowing if things will be good going into the future. Know too many who have rushed into failed marriages, and only a few who rushed into successful ones
- pixl97 3y ago>Dude, this isn't "normal". That is debatable. What's not debatable is that it's not healthy. Unfortunately a lot of marriages are not healthy so what is 'good' and what is 'normal' significantly differ. I grew up around a lot of evangelical religious people and there was a massive amount of pressure on people to get married. Conversely there was no pressure to make sure you got along with the people and were going to be happy. This lead to pretty much all my friends having short marriages that ended in divorce. Marriages are like diets. Some people eat healthily and get the benefits from it, a lot of people have no idea how to eat healthily and suffer because of it.
- SoftTalker 3y agoIt may not be "normal" but it's pretty common.
- CalRobert 3y agoCongrats.