I think it’s more the big O of failing that scares people these days. The out is a divorce. And it’s unfortunately really common (isn’t it like 50%?). Not sure

I think it’s more the big O of failing that scares people these days. The out is a divorce. And it’s unfortunately really common (isn’t it like 50%?). Not sure why but that’s just how it is. So I think people worry about the legal and opportunity cost of a failed marriage. I’ve never seen people who weren’t somewhat psychopathic who seemed fine after a divorce. Like really fine. There’s people like this one eng director guy who married four times, has like 9 kids, and now has a girlfriend. He’s a player, and that’s how he rolls. Most people however seem broken emotionally after their divorce and seem to be a shell of their former selves. Most that I know who remarried divorced again. There are a few normal happy folks but I don’t personally know any besides what I read on internet.