Define "better": what are the goals you are trying to achieve with marriage? It's also non-binary choice. For example, spending the life together without gett

Define "better": what are the goals you are trying to achieve with marriage? It's also non-binary choice. For example, spending the life together without getting into a formal contract of marriage? (I am assuming that's the goal, but some people equate it with starting a family or moving away from their dependence on their parents or whatever else)