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I'm sure there's no one size that fits all, but we've replaced it with small groups. For example, my family is in a discord channel. My SO's family is in a gro
by beej71 3y ago
I'm sure there's no one size that fits all, but we've replaced it with small groups.
For example, my family is in a discord channel. My SO's family is in a group text. My local motorcycle buddies are in a group text. My college friends from way back are on Slack. My expat coworkers from my last job are on Slack. My high school pals I'm still in touch with are on Discord.
And I get feed news on Mastodon, which is non-algorithmic. And it's great.
I still have accounts on those other sites for DM purposes, but I've deleted most of my past content and the rest is inoffensive stuff parked there just in case someone looks for a job or something.
I definitely miss out on the day-to-day of a lot of people I know, and that's a loss. But I still feel I have a net gain for my own mental health.
Again, this is only what works for me. YMMV.
- asim 3y agoThis. So you're highlighting what I feel and see. The need to manage small groups in a singular way. Maybe that's not even worth it but it's all spread across different platforms. I don't really know if a bridge for them all in one place is useful or whether it's just about having the one place to have these private groups.