I think discord works well but at the same time isn't for my generation. I was reluctant to adopt slack and used it for work/oss community building but found it

I think discord works well but at the same time isn't for my generation. I was reluctant to adopt slack and used it for work/oss community building but found it just wasn't a fit for me. I'm still someone who enjoys email and async comms. I also prefer conversating in small groups. So having this kind of fixed limit feels right. Like 20 people or less. Totally private. I also don't really want to talk to strangers. I'd like it to be network driven starting with real people I know or have met IRL.