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Trying to come up with post-facto explanations which arent your true reasoning in order to manipulate your partner's behavior is a huge red flag. If you follow
by elif 3y ago
Trying to come up with post-facto explanations which arent your true reasoning in order to manipulate your partner's behavior is a huge red flag. If you follow this sort of advice in your own relationship it is very likely going noticed and dissolving trust in your relationship.
- k0k0r0 3y agoUsing a different then my own true reasoning is completely normal, and everybody does this. One adjust your reasing to the understanding of the other person for example. Moreover, there is like a miles wide gab between rhetoric and manipulation.
- elif 3y agoutilizing deceit to change someone's behavior for your own personal reasons is, by definition, manipulation. communicating your true feelings and intentions is the only way to grow trust. what you are describing is needlessly eroding trust.
- shkkmo 3y agoIt is perfectly fine to present alternative reasonings to convince someone of something as long as you don't pretend that reasoning is the basis of your own position.