I think it can help to reframe it as “be my best”. Being the best in the world is impossible for over 99% of the population. Also look up T shaped experience a

I think it can help to reframe it as “be my best”. Being the best in the world is impossible for over 99% of the population. Also look up T shaped experience and so on. Maybe you can carve out something where you are the best much more easily than say chess, basketball, violin etc. The best at building code for robots that help city workers keep streets clean, for example. Or even the best neighbour for the old couple across the street. Family pressure can be crazy though and can really mess people up.