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that's a lot of what ifs. we don't live in the 50s any more. My wife and I were living together for 8 years before we got married. That sure would have been on
by ux-app 3y ago
that's a lot of what ifs.
we don't live in the 50s any more. My wife and I were living together for 8 years before we got married. That sure would have been one doozy of a long con if she turned around and suddenly became a totally different person once the ink dried on the marriage certificate.
Picking the right person is not the same as buying a lottery ticket, lol.
- midoridensha 3y agoAn 8-year trial run is completely unrealistic for most couples, especially if they want to have kids.
- Pet_Ant 3y agoNow you are moving the goal posts. There are many valid reasons to get married that do not involve having children. There you can take your time. Honestly, if you want to have children, have them with someone you can see yourself co-parenting with, not someone you love. Children place a lot of stress on a marriage, and even if you are personally compatible but have different attitudes on child-rearing it will ruin the relationship. Having kids within a romantic relationship is a terrible idea, IMHO. Be practical about it.