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I'm very competitive. I don't feel bad about myself if I'm 2nd best, but I know it means I'm not finished. I also used to wonder how to shut it off, and I mana

by qup 3y ago

I'm very competitive. I don't feel bad about myself if I'm 2nd best, but I know it means I'm not finished. I also used to wonder how to shut it off, and I managed to. And it was...fine. But I turned the competitive drive back on, on purpose. For me, and maybe for you, competition is what makes life fun. I would contend that this might be your superpower. If you think it suits you, lean into it.

grugagag 3y ago
For me competition makes life stressful and I'd rather cooperate than compete. I sometimes wish I was competitive but it was never ingrained within me and it's too late now. Somehow I am competitive, in a stubborn way, but only with myself and never care about actual points or prestige. If you enjoy competing it's kind of cool but beware that some people aren't into it and that there are multiple ways to get to your goals, and they take different paths through life's journey.