Sorry that happened, but this really seems like a hanlon's razor situation - i.e. never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. It'

Sorry that happened, but this really seems like a hanlon's razor situation - i.e. never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. It's easy to mess up messaging, or even omit a limit you thought you had put in there. How you handle it after the fact matters, and you're perfectly entitled to be annoyed by the mistake and the mishandling after - but rounding it up to scammy behaviour doesn't really track for me. This is all just my opinion - take it as you will. :)