I'm in that boat, we got married but it was a formality and an excuse to throw a party for both our families. We had been all but the paperwork married for a de

I'm in that boat, we got married but it was a formality and an excuse to throw a party for both our families. We had been all but the paperwork married for a decade. I like marriage as a ceremonial recognition of a thing that's already happened better than the maligning a commitment version.