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No doubt. The people I have known in an Indian arranged marriage actually understand relationships. They aren't trying to live in a Disney movie or Goethe nove
by laratied 3y ago
No doubt. The people I have known in an Indian arranged marriage actually understand relationships.
They aren't trying to live in a Disney movie or Goethe novel.
My understanding is that Goethe and romanticism really messed up our views in the West about romance. We have unrealistic beliefs from trying to live up to fiction.
- superposeur 3y agoYes, and music and all other parts of culture too: the lone genius model of human achievement, suffering=greatness, the primacy of emotion, and many other tropes that are now our cultural “defaults”. It’s hard to see clearly because we’re still inside the romantic movement.