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I don’t think you understand nvc: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication > Notable conce
by kortilla 3y ago
I don’t think you understand nvc: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication
> Notable concepts include rejecting coercive forms of discourse, gathering facts through observing without evaluating, genuinely and concretely expressing feelings and needs, and formulating effective and empathetic requests.
Other than my wife saying “it pisses me off”, which is expressing a feeling, none of it is NVC. There are no needs or requests expressed. There is no fact gathering. Crucially, there is no empathy building.
- kachnuv_ocasek 3y agoNVC is not about the words you say. I can imagine the above dialogue being a perfectly fine example between two people practising NVC.
- kortilla 3y agoIt’s about what they portray. Read the link I pasted above. I explained why it’s not NVC.