I agree. Like my physical scars, the ones in my relationships still serve as a useful reminder. Injury is a fact of life and one we should become good at respon

I agree. Like my physical scars, the ones in my relationships still serve as a useful reminder. Injury is a fact of life and one we should become good at responding to. A comfortable and hassle-free life is virtually impossible (and perhaps not even desirable), so it appears to me that the injuries should be attended to, healed, learned from, then used as a symbol of that process to reflect on.