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On the flip side, when you have a partner that brings up issues almost every night before going to bed, that gets old too.
by for_i_in_range 3y ago
On the flip side, when you have a partner that brings up issues almost every night before going to bed, that gets old too.
- lazide 3y agoIt can also just be dangerous - before bed is usually when people have the least emotional regulation and are the most tired and cranky. It’s peak ‘domestic’ call time. Well, outside of end of year holidays. Ideally, being able to go ‘now is a shitty time, let’s laugh about it and check tomorrow if it’s still an issue’ would be better. But emotions don’t always work that way.
- m3kw9 3y agoOnly for fights that seem warranted, otherwise it could get too much. Most time small arguments gets “resolv-ish” right away, say small stuff like leaving a mess and being an ass about it, you know? You say sorry, next time I’ll be better and it’s usually done