Gotcha. Maybe there's a way to fix this with language? If someone says that they use the metro or cycle to work, I'm like, cool man, trains are sick, let's cha

Gotcha. Maybe there's a way to fix this with language? If someone says that they use the metro or cycle to work, I'm like, cool man, trains are sick, let's chat. If someone says they "support a car-free lifestyle", I'm probably already starting to think about something else and glazing over.