> Once or twice a week my wife or I will go through their text messages with them and ask questions about anything that seems off. > When bad patterns start su

> Once or twice a week my wife or I will go through their text messages with them and ask questions about anything that seems off. > When bad patterns start surfacing, we rein it in. Can you elaborate on what sorts of things you'd ask about, or what bad patterns are? I'm not a parent but if I were I think I'd have a hard time drawing the line in the right place.