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I'll not allow you to invalidate my statement by dismissing me as hypersensitive. That's a lousy tactic you're trying to use. Addressing an adult human using

I'll not allow you to invalidate my statement by dismissing me as hypersensitive. That's a lousy tactic you're trying to use. Addressing an adult human using a child's label is condescending, period. I certainly don't appreciate being called a boy, and I haven't referred to a female colleague as a girl since I was in my teens. Further, if you haven't noticed the consistent way in which comments here have used the words men and girls then I think you're not reading very closely.

Jun8 15y ago
> ... invalidate my statement by dismissing me as hypersensitive I wasn't trying to invalidate your statement, just pointing out that, to me, it is hypersensitive. You might disagree. > Addressing an adult human using a child's label is condescending, period However, you have to base your argument on something other than "I said so". That makes your comment just a statement rather than an argument. > I certainly don't appreciate being called a boy ... The question here is not what person X likes or does not like as a form of address but if such an address can be used in general, in any context. > comments here have used the words men and girls On the men vs. girls issue, I wonder what you think of my comments above.