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Doing only what you enjoy prevents you from getting what you want, if what you want requires action you don’t enjoy. If the pain of not being where you want to
by fogzen 3y ago
Doing only what you enjoy prevents you from getting what you want, if what you want requires action you don’t enjoy.
If the pain of not being where you want to be is greater than the pain of remaining where you are, you’ll take action.
It’s great if you enjoy what you’re doing. But often we enjoy where we want to go more than what we have to do to get there. I want a clean house more than I want to clean it, which is why I take action to clean it every day.
The problem comes when we aren’t in tune with what we really want, and we can’t make the choice about what’s required of us. It’s okay to accept that you don’t want to be someone who meditates every day. Or that you want to eat and drink more than you want six pack abs. Be honest about what you want, without influence from the expectations of other people, culture, or tradition.
- CTDOCodebases 3y ago> If the pain of not being where you want to be is greater than the pain of remaining where you are, you’ll take action. Not necessarily. Some people don’t feel deserving so they stay where they are. A victim of their own torturous mind. Also learned helplessness is a real thing.