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For me it is a yes, but it took a while. There were some early struggles and awkwardness around me being gay (nothing really bad and I am grateful that I never
by nerdjon 3y ago
For me it is a yes, but it took a while.
There were some early struggles and awkwardness around me being gay (nothing really bad and I am grateful that I never felt unsafe)
There was the awkward years after being an adult that our relationship had to shift and it took until my mid twenties before it really shifted to, you don't have any control over me anymore and we are equals. There were some fights around this.
For me this took moving about 600 miles away and being able to become my own person.
Now obviously there are plenty of things that they don't know about me. Often will hear about things I did after the fact instead of like with friends and just talking about future plans.
But I regularly text my mom (like she asked me about the D&D) movie and we generally talk on the phone once or twice a week.
Being completely honest the pandemic helped, we talked a lot more.