I don't mind having stuff update, I just don't like anything that steals focus / the cursor. When I am in windowsland I often find myself saying something along

I don't mind having stuff update, I just don't like anything that steals focus / the cursor. When I am in windowsland I often find myself saying something along the lines of 'let me know when its my turn to use the computer'. Sure, run your update. just shut the fuck up about it.