I think that lots of adolescents honestly do not want to do anything. They prefer having no responsibilities whatsoever. That's because you can't start with ad

I think that lots of adolescents honestly do not want to do anything. They prefer having no responsibilities whatsoever. That's because you can't start with adolescence. You have to start increasing responsibility from roughly age 2. Get them used to it, reward it, show them the connection between increased responsibility and increased choice and freedom. Then they'll want it. The problem with most adolescents is the 12 years prior.