It doesn’t matter if that’s it purpose or not. It has that negative effect. In a lot of places, throwing cigarette butts to anywhere is fine, it’s not part of

It doesn’t matter if that’s it purpose or not. It has that negative effect. In a lot of places, throwing cigarette butts to anywhere is fine, it’s not part of etiquette. It was never aligned with positive sum game. Using different kind of utensils for different things are not related to game theory at all. You can use a single fork for many things, you don’t need have more. When I ate snails, I got a separate fork for it. My simple fork next to it would have worked exactly the same way. It’s still etiquette. You’re talking about euphemisms in etiquette, while your reason of etiquette is to avoid unnecessary thinking. These clearly contradict each other. The “party problem” would be solved with a way better way if there would be fine by etiquette to say to guests to leave. But it doesn’t. Hiearchy is “natural”. Maintaining any hiearchy? That’s completely on us.